Well my fellow blogger friends, Since I moved my rants and raves about debt over to my friends site I can now get back to the business of talking about other stuff! Sorry the debt stuff just over came me!!
Anyways yesterday I was talking to my good friend about people we used to sleep with and why. He went on to describe a girl that was all of about a -8 outta 10 in the looks department and he had no intentions on ever I repeat EVER being in a relationship with her. As all woman, we think men will sleep with just about anything walking But this girl had something special. She could put it down in the bed like no one he had ever meet in his life. He went on to give me all the details clearly and vividly about some woman he knew all of 10 years ago!! I think he actually made his self hard while talking about it (sorry) but he did!
Anyways as I listened to him rant I couldn’t help but think about that one guy (yes one) that I currently hold every man to his bar for (which is VERY HIGH). The man knew how to flip it, smack it and rub it down. I knew every time I would see him that I would not be disappointed when we got busy and well I still think about it like it was yesterday just like my friend does. But he was someone in spite of his sexual capabilities he and I had no right to be together. I often wondered why I would keep dealing with our fights, and bickering over dumb stuff and for a minute I thought I loved the man. But my friends it wasn’t love it was the other L word, Lust.
I know sometimes its hard to keep the two separated, but I swear everytime you hear your friend say oh she put a brick in his window, or I got a ppo on that crazy b*tch for putting a knife on my pillow with red kool-aid on it and a note saying “imma kill yo ass*. No my friends this is not love like you think, this is straight up lust. I mean I know we have all fell in love a time or two, but sex good sex can make you do way more crazy ish than love ever could. I know, even though I have never put peanut butter n somebodies gas tank I sure have thought about it, and I know it wasnt cuz I loved that foo!!
Anyways once I figured out that it wasn’t love, I was able to let go of the situation. I think we all need to take a step back and analyze why we stay with people who aren’t capable of making us happy outside of sex. Trust me its good for the soul and whatever, but word of advise don’t go dumping you lust buddy until you can be with someone you love, dont want u to get fired from you job because you threw a computer out of a window (i have never done this).
So good people, who do you love lust???
Sometimes lust can be confused with love. That’s one reason why I think people should get to know each other first before jumping in the bed with each other. If the man is putting it down in the bedroom, then the woman is quick to overlook the fact that he stole her credit card out her wallet when she wasn’t looking or the fact he accidentally moved his stuff into her house and now is housed up there.
You can be in love and lust at the same time though. It’s good to be in lust with the one you love.
I was in lust with this younger guy earlier this year but had to stop talking to him because outside of the lust we had no future–at least I didn’t see it. I had to stop talking to him because if I wouldn’t have, I would have given in–I’m strong but even the strong get weak at times. lol
Amen Shelia, I have done some odd things over lust. But you are right people HAVE to get to know eachother, thats what I have been working on while I am keeping away from the “s”, I just remember what happen the last time I slept with someone before I got to know them, and it turned into a 3 year saga and all I have are memories of wonderful bed room romps lol.
But thats it, and jesus I can’t keep living off those memories lol.
OK so I cant even concentrate on the post after that pic… I’m gonna try again later after I get my mind right since I can expect it but that nastiness just too me all off guard and focus
Ok I finally came back and read it… and so glad that the pic has nothing to do with the post…lol
and yeah… I’m going to keep my lusting sexcapades to myself..hehe… but thanks for bringing back some good memories