I notice there has been a lot of talk about Steve Harvey’s book and inparticular the subject on 90 days waiting game. I actually have plans to take it one step further and actually wait til marriage.
Most of my friends say go ahead do you but I want to get some real incite on the process and let folks know where I am coming from. Now let me clear this up before I go into detail I am by no means a round the way around the block and back type of girl, but for most of my life I have used the mantra of “im a Libra and we like to get down” motto. So far it has given me a few great sexual experience but nothing that brought me to that “I’m in love” type feeling.
So after my break-up recently I decided to take a new approach to the way I go about dating. The idea is that I can do what they call “multitasking” without actually being emotionally tied to one person through sex, as I had done in the past. I believe by viewing men without the “Clouded judgment” will allow me to make better choices about who my future husband could potentially be. I can’t say this is a surefire way to handle things but right now I think its the best way to secure my emotional well being. This is not to say I wouldn’t be hurt by any men I didn’t sleep with but I know it can cut down on a LOT of mess that goes with dating, and I believe it will help me learn about me spiritually, physically and emotionally.
So men? women? how do you feel about the issue, do you think many men would actually go for this especially after your cherry done been popped long ago lol. Women, how do you feel about waiting? Do you think Goods NEED TO be tested first or is it all a bunch of old school hype……
