Ok so this seems to be the topic of the week in blogsville so I wanted to be first (or 100th) to create the “I think he is gay list” Again. They are talking about it over at vsb’s place, and Ms Karrie B mentioned it on a post of hers as well and so did Single Black male a few months ago. So I know everybody has they list of whats deemed to be gay signs so please add to my list if you will…
1. Ordering fruity drinks – (got this from kb and she is so right)
2. You have a man bag
3. You shower with a loofah. im sorry but what happen to good old fashion wash cloths n soap?
4. You have a toiletries bag for when you spend the night at a females house
5. You know way to much about charles pugh the gay news anchor
6. You know way to much about whats fashionable
7. You tell women that THEY should call more *blank stare*
8. You hang out with your boys more than your girl
9. Gets manicures and pedicures (please don’t argue with me on this)
10. Talks about gay people and how they suck
11. Thinks giving head to a woman is gross
12. Likes it from the back WAY to much
13. The inside of your crib is flyer than mine and it wasn’t a woman that decorated it was you.
14. You know what splendiferous means because of this guy
15. You have more pink in your closet than me, and I LOVES ME SOME PINK
Ok so my list is only based on what I have seen and heard and I know there is more stories out there so let us hear!! Us single ladies need to know what to look for so don’t hold us up!!
“You shower with a lufa”
I had a boyfriend who showered with a loofah sponge…
**oh God** well its too late nah LOL.
lmao comeback, I dunno its questionable I know some men that use them too that I don’t exactly deem gay but still…..
i mean why u gotta go there???
“i mean why u gotta go there???”
to get the dead skin off..i may pass this …part…if i bought the loofah. Sometimes women get men into these habits too and it just sticks. i dunno.
Girl when I saw the Little Richard picture–all I could say was — Hee hee (in a Little Richard tone)…lol
Those are definately red flags. As well as:
He stops and looks at his reflection way too much.
He’s more concerned about his hair, than you are.
Hee hee (in a Little Richard tone)…lol
lmao Shelia you are a clown!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtEfyNCCyTE
check this out. IT IS NOT WORK SAFE. but its not nasty, just strong language.
its fine because im not at work!!
lawd have mercy kelly clarkston eddie murphy!!!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sqr7hTHL3u8
part 1
OK sorry I have to disagree with you on 9… I mean I mess with a football player… they have hammertime in their feet. I mean it is crazy night… they need to get pedicure and manicures… now if he gets one once a week like women do then there is a problem… but I dont think there is any thing wrong with a man getting one every couple months… hell I actually prefer it
and 11… in NY you cant really go on that… All these NY men that were born and raised here… for the most part… swear up and down they dont eat pussy… I dont know what it is…, and it has always been like that… you gotta damn near let a nig know he aint getting none unless he put his face down there
“you gotta damn near let a nig know he aint getting none unless he put his face down there”
eb foreal???? I am in utter shock at this one. Imma need an explanation for that, cuz round here its a must/given unless something aint right with miss lady its going down lol.
i would have to say your list is quite right. i would have to add though:
if a man pops his lips and rolls his eyes when irrated is a sign to me that he is gay.
when a man stays on the phone too much with his friends.
if a man gossips too much and has to run-n-tell stuff all the time to anyone who will listen.
when a man looks a woman up and down and rolls his eyes at her as if he’s jealous of her.
when a man’s finger nails are too long (i don’t know about you, but i have a problem with a man whose nails are long, i don’t get it, lol).
and that’s just my two and a half cents.
thank you Leslie those are some great additions!! Long fingernails, yea umm
thats just nasty lol
Umm, has anybody ever tried to use shower gel with a bath cloth? It’s really not that simple.lol. I just came across this post. Comedy.
First Let me say, I appreciate this site…I was in a non-sexual christain relationship with this man from Albany, Ga for almost 2 years. During the relationship, he rarely kissed me, held me and would get very moody about the simplest things. He had one guy that was in college with him namd Dwayne, that was clearly gay and they talked occassionally. Then he moved in with this guy that he told me, “he thought was gay”, I also found gay porn on his laptop and my personal desktop. When I questionhim, he became outraged(all this time, we where engaged, but my heart wasn’t settled). I told him before the marriage, we would get HIV Test, he didn’t deny, but wasn’t reminding me about either. Well after he gradauted from Albany State University, him and I split up, he just left, after I confronted him a second time, about the gay porn..So here it is, I never caught him with a guy, but there would be condoms in my car door whenn I visited him, (I live in Florida) and he wasn’t touching me, once I tried to come on to him, just to be close and he pulled away. So again..Listen to your heart and the spirit of God. If he doesn’t touch you, hold you at times,, you sense something is wrong, CHECK IT OUT, he may be gay and you could just be saving your health and heart from a lifetime of HELL. Love Yourself First, Then You Can Love Someone Else,, Be Blessed and Safe.
Chinni-from Florida